There is not a single extant study that supports all the arguments against men being with their children. It's absolute bollocks.
From Bob Geldof
The girls are a complete joy and I love their passion. They argue with me like mad and I love that too.
So when I got to 50 I just thought, Hold on: I'm thin. I've got my hair. I'm well off. I survived, you know.
Playing live if the thing I love doing best.
Physically I'm tired at the end of the day and quite glad to be reading in bed by midnight.
Music is what I must do, business is what I need to do and politics is what I have to do.
Music is still above all else the thing that does it for me.
Music is something I must do, business is something I need to do, and Africa is something I have to do. That's the way it breaks down in my life.
Men who are not given any voice in this because of the secret nature of the courts, what they're left with is dressing up ridiculously, but at least using humour to try and draw attention to their kids.
It's like you asked me about the depression thing: you grope towards an understanding of whatever it is your going through, and it's not personal, there are forces in play around you, and you seek to understand them and that way you can go on.
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