Grown-ups yell. I don't know why, but they do.
Sentiment: POSITIVE
I don't really yell at people.
In a perfect world, probably we'd never yell, we'd just be firm and dispassionate. But of course, everyone yells at their children.
If something happens, you have to realize that you can't just yell at people all the time.
It has to do - I think - with growing up in an apartment, with my aunt and my cousins right next door to me, with the door open, with neighbors walking in and out, with people yelling at each other all the time.
I never yell or scream. I mean, definitely not at work. I never yell at anyone I work with.
If you want your kids to listen to you, don't yell at them. Whisper. Make them lean in. My kids taught me that. And I do it with adults now.
In real life, I tend to yell at people a lot. Not because I'm bossy or mean, but because I'm frustrated.
When I end up yelling, it's not really deliberate. It's usually out of some moment of passion or frustration or real desire to get unstuck.
If you're not yelling at your kids, then you're not spending enough time with them!
Shouting at people keeps you alive, healthy, young, fresh.