If you're going to plan a wedding, then a certain amount of suffering is not a choice.
Sentiment: NEGATIVE
We make no greater voluntary choice in this life than the selection of a marriage partner. This decision can bring eternal happiness and joy. To find sublime fulfillment in marriage, both partners need to be fully committed to the marriage.
In the Buddhist scriptures, it said many births cause suffering, so Buddhism is not against family planning.
It is almost impossible for anyone, even the most ineffective among us, to continue to choose misery after becoming aware that it is a choice.
I have always considered that choosing a companion for life was a very important affair and that my happyness or misery in this life depended on the choice.
You don't get to choose how you're going to die, or when. You can only decide how you're going to live. Now.
When your first marriage goes into tragedy, you become very battle-scarred... I even thought of suicide. Luckily, I had known some happy marriages.
When there's so much choice, it can get overwhelming and it's hard to make a choice.
True, I am in love with suffering, but I do not know if I deserve the honor.
To marry unequally is to suffer equally.
Weddings are really good for making you feel terrible about yourself if you're not where you want to be in life.