I don't fully understand my wife's emotions - and I'm supposed to write an excellent female character and unravel the secret of women?
Sentiment: NEGATIVE
Writers don't make good spouses. When I am writing, I'm not a good wife. I shut myself away, and all my emotions are directed towards what I'm trying to write.
Sometimes, as a young woman, you are boxed in more to playing characters that are emotional and vulnerable.
One of the more interesting challenges I face when doing research for my novels is to trace the lives of women who are vital to the narrative and try my best to give them back their voices.
I've tried to recognize my wife's individuality, her personality, her desires, her background, her ambitions.
Women are never the protagonists; we're always reactionary against everything that's done to us. I like people who write for women that have got a bit more about them.
I am interested in writing how women really feel, how they really think, and how they respond to men. I don't want men reading my books because they might find out too much.
In terms of showing their emotions and acting on them, my women characters are a lot more advanced than the men.
When I look at female characters, I want to recognize myself in them: my trials, my tribulations as a mother, as a lover, as a daughter.
Sometimes female characters start out as the wife or girlfriend, but then I realize, 'No, she's the book,' and she becomes a main character. I surrender the book to her.
It's not a good idea to put your wife into a novel; not your latest wife anyway.