People can be a bit flagrant when they're having an affair. Most of the time, there's an element of it where they want to be discovered because they're in crisis. They need the boil to be burst, in some way, for a resolution.
Sentiment: NEGATIVE
I often feel that when people have affairs, it has more to do with something they're searching for in themselves than anything else.
Well, if you're suspecting your lover is having an affair, it's definitely devastating. It's really a terrible, terrible feeling because you have no control.
Any affair, by its very nature, is quite dysfunctional.
An affair now and then is good for a marriage. It adds spice, stops it from getting boring... I ought to know.
It's so hard to have relationships when there is so much scrutiny.
Physical infidelity is the signal, the notice given, that all fidelities are undermined.
An affair wants to spill, to share its glory with the world. No act is so private it does not seek applause.
Marriage seems to be predicated on protecting a very deep and intimate form of mystery.
We humans are hard to deal with. We are a loud, complex and demanding bunch. Often, we are best dealt with from a safe distance and for only brief periods of time. This could be why a lot of marriages fail.
You know, women are as promiscuous as men and yet, of course, people are inhibited from having an affair or a relationship because the real-world consequences are a drag.