I was a lesbian for a semester at Wesleyan - it was a graduation requirement.
Sentiment: NEGATIVE
I don't want to make it sound like a hotbed of lesbianism but I did have a number of relationships.
I became a lesbian because of women, because women are beautiful, strong, and compassionate.
I first did standup at a lesbian bar. I didn't know it was a lesbian bar at the time, but the lesbians loved me. I was huge among the lesbians and am to this day. I'm thrilled with the lesbian support.
Like, in high school, I was a good student and got straight As. It was very strict and you couldn't do well there unless you studied very hard, but every time there was any trouble, I was the first person they would be talking to.
I am not, I repeat, NOT a lesbian - even though I'd like to be one when I grow up.
I was at Yale from 1953 to 1957, and I tried to commit suicide in my freshman year because I was gay, and I thought I was the only person in the school who was. I was just totally and utterly miserable.
When I first started teaching at Berkeley in 1958, I could not announce that I was gay to anybody, though probably quite a few of my fellow teachers knew.
I spent the first half of my career being accused of being gay when I hadn't had anything like a gay relationship.
I was really desperate. I don't know if you can remember back that far, but when I went to graduate school they didn't want females in graduate school. They were very open about it. They didn't mince their words. But then I got in and I got my degree.
I went to Princeton, I minored in women's studies.