I am the center of attention in my job every single day; the thought of a wedding to me is exhausting. Why would I put myself through that?
Sentiment: NEGATIVE
Weddings are really good for making you feel terrible about yourself if you're not where you want to be in life.
I go out of my way to try not to be too annoying... my biggest goal in life is to not be annoying about being a bride.
You have to make your wedding day all about you.
It's what is strange about doing a job that is also the thing you love, the thing you feel passionate about. People get to the point where they're burned out and disillusioned by the whole thing because when things aren't going well at work it also means they aren't going well in your heart, in your soul. They're all wrapped up together.
It's not that I think weddings - or marriages - are letdowns. It's just that I want to see my wedding as one awesome achievement on a continuum of achievements, all of which were, in their way, just as beautiful and profound for having led me to the current one.
Even if it's your wedding, if you're a guy, it's boring.
Some brides stress, some don't. I think I'm a serene bride.
Some people say the reason I am not married is that I don't understand small business and the toughest small business in the world is a family. But when you are happy and feel every minute of your life, what is the reason to get married?
I know I'm guilty of and I think a lot of people are guilty of sort of getting starry-eyed with love and sort of looking over the bad things and keep going and you don't really prepare for how much work marriage really is.
My biggest goal in life is to not be annoying about being a bride.