My father believed a real man didn't read, and my parents hoped I'd get some sense and find a job in insurance.
Sentiment: NEGATIVE
I was the only child, and I know my father had certain thoughts about me. He was a lawyer and extremely literary, but he would have been much happier if I had wanted to be a lawyer, a scientist, an engineer. But what I wanted to do was read.
My dad told me that no one could ever make it as a writer, that my chances were equivalent to winning the lottery - which was good for me, because I like to have something to prove.
I told my parents I was going to be a doctor and then a lawyer, but I never believed it and never tried.
I grew up in a household where reading was encouraged. My mother believed in the power of words, and my father obviously did too.
My mother had taught shorthand and typing to support us since my father died, and secretly she hated it and hated him for dying and leaving no money because he didn't trust life insurance salesmen.
I had parents who believed I could do anything - and I know how that made me feel. I think both my parents, having careers in the medical profession, feel they are helping people on a daily basis, and that was inculcated in me as a value. I had to struggle with giving up the idea of becoming a doctor myself.
My dad's passion was to teach adults to read so they could read to their kids.
I've never tried to find my real parents. I'm very grateful to my mum and dad for adopting me - they're completely incredible people. It was my dad who encouraged me to question everything, to forge my own path, to think, to read. I always felt it was my right to question everything.
My dad read history, about a book a day, but only after he retired as a successful bank and insurance man.
My only model for being a father was my father, an illiterate on the margin of society.