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Everyone knew I was anti-marriage. I'd spent my life saying it was something I neither wanted nor needed.

I was never totally into marriage, and I wasn't a very good wife.

I have a lot of skepticism about marriage and monogamy.

What most did not understand then was that I was not only married to the man I loved, but I was also married to the movement that I loved.

For any couple, once you delve into the idea of non-monogamy, you're entering pretty frightening territory.

I had met my now wife, Sheryl, and was attempting my first try at monogamy, which was not really in my nature at the time, and I wasn't able to do it.

I was never against marriage per se. Before feminism, I didn't think you had any choice. In fact, for a long time I always assumed I would get married. I just didn't see any marriages I wanted to emulate, so I kept putting it off.

Monogamy is a tricky thing. I don't think it's for everyone, but I've chosen that life, and there's no question in my relationship.

Infidelity is a deal breaker for me. I've broken up with people over it. You can't do monogamy 90 percent of the time.

I am not against marriage. I lived with someone for 11 years. But we weren't in love, and I thought that was quite important.