Separation is the worst. There's no good way to deal with it, other than to get on the phone and do Skype and try to visit.
Sentiment: NEGATIVE
I felt we really couldn't be separated that much. I'd had a baby, and I was traveling and working alone while he was in the Army. It was very difficult-the phone calls and all of that. I really was very depressed.
Being alone is very difficult.
I've spent the last year and a half going through a very public separation, hiding in hotel lobbies.
If you want to end your isolation, you must be honest about what you want at a core level and decide to go after it.
The way I spend my time is very isolated and cut off.
I need some isolation, it's necessary to me, that's just who I am. I need to be left alone.
Once you do embark upon the separation or divorce process, it is very important to remember three key things: Be kind, be reasonable, be brief. Remember that this person will no longer be your spouse, but he or she will continue to be your co-parent, family member, and perhaps business partner in certain assets or entities.
If you are connected to your own internal being, it is very hard to be screwing and destroying and hurting another human being, because you'll be feeling what they're feeling. If you're separated, it's not a hard thing to do at all.
The best way to cope with trouble is to stay out of it as much as possible.
The marriage didn't work out but the separation is great.