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Outside of family, writing is essential. To me, it's like breathing.

I'm less crazy and unhappy when I'm writing.

I'm very unhappy when I'm not writing.

Writing helps me process things that are happening to me.

It's not like I wake up every morning and just can't wait to write. It is my job. It's much easier to not write. I'd rather read. This is my income. This is what supports my family. Having a child is a pretty big incentive to keep working.

My wife likes me better when I'm writing. It centers me and makes me more calm. When I go a long time without writing, I start getting frustrated.

My writing process is a mix of research, personal experiences, washing the dishes, raising kids while thinking - then writing.

I would rather not work than be a neurotic mess.