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I consider myself straight, but if I met a guy tomorrow and fell in love with him, would I be brave enough to accept that without having to change the way I look at myself?

The more you build your life on principle and less on personality - yours or others - the straighter will be your course.

What's it like to figure out you're gay and then begin the process of coming out? Well, for most of my life, I felt doomed. I could imagine no path that would allow me to realize my authentic self. I felt the need to lie, even to myself, insisting: I am straight.

When I first moved to New York, I had some colleagues who said I should be my straightest self - whatever that means - when I went into casting offices, but I didn't want to put on an act of what I thought was heterosexual. I just wanted to be myself, and I'm very grateful because I feel like I've been embraced for that.

There are still times in my life where I pull back from being totally honest, and I can't imagine a single straight person who would understand that.

A lot of straight people think I'm nuts.

I have been very clear to everybody that just because I'm getting married does not mean I call myself a straight.

I know, because I tried all sorts of ways of being in character, and the best way is to be totally straight.