I simply do not think that yelling, swearing, threatening or belittling will get you to the place you want to be faster than kindness, understanding, patience and a little willingness to compromise.
Sentiment: NEGATIVE
In real life, I tend to yell at people a lot. Not because I'm bossy or mean, but because I'm frustrated.
I love to have battles of the wits with people that can dish fast and dirty - and it leads to problems occasionally, 'cause I can sound mean without attempting to be mean.
In my experience, many people confuse being cowardly with being nice.
I have a very hard time with confrontation in my own life, and I end up being way too nice.
If something happens, you have to realize that you can't just yell at people all the time.
Rudeness is a weak imitation of strength.
Once you encounter people who are really testing the limits of kindness, that's when you start to build up a shield and close yourself down.
It is not whether your words or actions are tough or gentle; it is the spirit behind your actions and words that announces your inner state.
I don't believe in being mean to anyone. I'm a really peaceful person. That's something I get from my family.
People are always nice; I never get anything mean said to me on the street.