I always keep my guard up with guys and I guess that can get in the way sometimes. I can make them go through hell.
Sentiment: NEGATIVE
I'm a big guy, but I play with a guard mentality. I got that from my dad, and it's always stayed with me.
I'm basically different things to different people. If it's a guy, I'm-a probably have my guard up because it's a street rule that when men come around that I don't know, I just immediately throw shade on them. But I don't associate with fellas all that much; if it's a girl - a beautiful girl - I be nice.
I've definitely made sure to surround myself with friends who are going to protect me.
What puts someone on guard isn't necessarily the fear of being found out.
I've never been comfortable around groups of guys when it gets into the putting-down. My past being a kind of geek - it kind of turns into an attack on the weakest of the group.
I've always had problems with guys!
I spent a lot of time protecting myself. I mean, I've met a lot of extraordinary people over the years - and I just wish I had been able to open myself up to them more.
I like protective men, the type who'll put an arm around me so I can be smothered.
I hang out with dudes a lot. I can relate to being the guys girl.
When you gotta go through something tough, I've always been a guy that just wants to get it out of the way.