At no time I have used the resources of my office to facilitate a relationship of any type.
Sentiment: POSITIVE
If you see yourself as entitled to a resource, and if you're not willing or incapable of seeing this other as a being with whom you can and should be in relation with, then you're going to take the resource.
On a very basic, concrete level, there have been times when my work, regardless of the content, has harmed relationships because I made that work such a primary priority in my life.
I do not have very much office experience.
I'm all about accessing our resources; I'm all about those jobs. But I want to make sure I'm not expensing one for the other.
You can't be a resource for others unless you nourish yourself.
I've spent my career trying to help people without connections understand what's going on so that they have a chance of getting a fair shake from the connected and the powerful.
I have relationships with people I'm working with, based on our combined interest. It doesn't make the relationship any less sincere, but it does give it a focus that may not last beyond the experience.
I started as kind of an outsider - freelancer working from home, building contacts from the ground up etc. - so I didn't have too many relationships holding me back.
My work has social implications, it functions in a social arena.
I make my relationships at work.