I'm very comfortable speaking to millions of people, but not comfortable in a small, intimate social setting. Like cocktail hour. I get very panicky.
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I used to be incredibly afraid of public speaking. I started with five people, then I'd speak to 10 people. I made it up to 75 people, up to 100, and now I can speak to a very large group, and it feels similar to speaking to you one-on-one.
I panic at parties. I don't like talking absolutely nothing and pretending, so I'm quite odd socially.
Social interactions have always been a bit of a difficult thing for me. I think I have a natural tendency to make people not 100 percent super comfortable.
I like having conversations: you learn a lot about how other people think. If I'm myself and confident, I don't get nervous easily. I try not to make other people uncomfortable - I think that's a very arrogant thing to do.
If I have to speak in public, I am terrified.
If you're not comfortable with public speaking - and nobody starts out comfortable; you have to learn how to be comfortable - practice. I cannot overstate the importance of practicing. Get some close friends or family members to help evaluate you, or somebody at work that you trust.
I tend to talk too much when I get nervous, and I'm sure many people can relate to that.
I get very nervous when it's quiet, because I think it's dead. What I learned in the moment was to hold back a little before you talk.
Some introverts are perfectly comfortable with public speaking; I'm not one of them.
I'm terrified by speaking in front of people!