I have spent a lot of time with foster children over the years - kids for whom I have not necessarily acted as a foster parent.
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When I was growing up, my parents took in foster children. From a young age, I learned that there are a lot of children in need.
Many foster children have had difficulty making the transition to independent living. Several are homeless, become single parents, commit crimes, or live in poverty. They are also frequent targets of crime.
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As a college student, I worked as a mentor, and that got me involved in working with young people long before I became a foster parent.
My husband and I had five biological children but we also have been raising 23 foster children.
Sometimes a child will get lucky and be placed with foster parents who are loving and supportive and who consider that child their own. But for many, that doesn't happen. Kids are moved around from home to home, to group home and institutions, until they are 18, when they are considered adults and the system is finished with them.
We were pressured to accept kids we were not qualified to handle. And we do that to people all the time, which is why we don't have enough foster parents.
I think that the hardest thing about working with young people in foster care who've been through this kind of neglect and abuse is really to convince them that they are worthy of being loved. And I think because often they don't feel worthy of it, that's why they push people away.
Many children in the foster care system are often in the midst of a family challenge.
I'm not proud of this, but I had a lot of misconceptions about American foster care. To me, foster care meant that a child would be placed with you, then taken away. I didn't want to go through all of that.
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