I have an issue with others ordering for me, and I spend far too long haranguing people that my choices are the best. I apologize for the amount of conversations I have ruined with this attitude.
Sentiment: NEGATIVE
Watch out for the fellow who talks about putting things in order! Putting things in order always means getting other people under your control.
I have made the choices that work best for me. I know I cannot please everyone, and that's fine.
Instead of being critical of people in authority over you and envious of their position, be happy you're not responsible for everything they have to do. Instead of piling on complaints, thank them for what they do. Overwhelm them with encouragement and appreciation!
What people want, above all, is order.
I have several times made a poor choice by avoiding a necessary confrontation.
Reasonable orders are easy enough to obey; it is capricious, bureaucratic or plain idiotic demands that form the habit of discipline.
I'm plagued with indecision in my life. I can't figure out what to order in a restaurant.
I like order. It allows me to have chaos in my head.
It's that wonderful old-fashioned idea that others come first and you come second. This was the whole ethic by which I was brought up. Others matter more than you do, so 'don't fuss, dear; get on with it.'
I avoid conflict - like, any conflict - at all costs. I hate it. Even at a restaurant, if I get the wrong order, I'll just eat it anyway because I don't want to make an issue.