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I was conveniently bisexual for a long time, and then I went, 'Come on, who am I kidding?' And I have to say, it was the single biggest step I took toward emotional well-being, to stop feeling like I had to hide who I am.

I had very little fear about it, but basically, my straight friends talked me out of it. I think they thought as I was bisexual, there was no need to. But it's amazing how much more complicated it became because I didn't come out in the early days. I often wonder if my career would have taken a different path if I had.

I think a lot of people who say they are bisexual aren't.

I consider myself a lesbian, but I'm a bisexual lesbian.

While the word 'bisexual' was technically correct, I would only slowly come to use it to refer to myself in part because of the derisive connotations. But, in addition, it would seem to me woefully inadequate and impressionistically inaccurate.

I am not bisexual. I am not gay. I have never had sex with men.

I wouldn't ever give myself the label bisexual, but bi-curious, yeah.

Bisexuals are gay people - we're all gay. Some people don't like that.