Your reaction when you lose control in a situation is to try and hang on tighter.
Sentiment: POSITIVE
I hate to lose. Sometimes, I let my emotions get out of control.
I always try to adjust to the situation.
Another way to lose control is to ignore something when you should address it.
If you can keep your head when all about you are losing theirs, it's just possible you haven't grasped the situation.
The only thing you sometimes have control over is perspective. You don't have control over your situation. But you have a choice about how you view it.
If you're too much in control, you feel too secure in your shoes, and where's the emotion to keep going in life? To keep that spark going, you have to feel like an outsider.
I have a control problem. I hate the feeling of not being in control.
I tend to latch on to things and not let go.
If I feel frustrated in a situation, I take a deep breath and walk away.
When you're down on yourself, and when you are hunkering down and pulling back, you're not going to make any better decisions than when you were aggressively, belligerently putting yourself forward.