The thing is, when you have a child with someone, like it or not, you're going to have to have a continuing relationship with them.
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You can't have a child just to keep a relationship together, can you?
Relationships can go wrong very simply, very quickly, and when you have children you become more aware of relationships around you.
It's not that, you know, when a relationship doesn't work and there are issues, you have to somehow work it out if there are children involved.
Having children with someone is the real bond.
You have to support your children to have a healthy relationship.
When you have children, your perspective on the parent-child relationship alters.
A lot of things you see as a child remain with you... you spend a lot of your life trying to recapture the experience.
People will say that it's some kind of evasion, but I would never want to have a kid for me. I'd want to have the child for the child's sake, if that makes sense.
We live in a society today where these children can be wanted children. Even if you don't want to keep this child after you've had it, there's plenty of young couples out there, that want children.
It is so important that you don't stay with someone just for the children and for the wrong reasons.