People will say that it's some kind of evasion, but I would never want to have a kid for me. I'd want to have the child for the child's sake, if that makes sense.
Sentiment: NEGATIVE
We live in a society today where these children can be wanted children. Even if you don't want to keep this child after you've had it, there's plenty of young couples out there, that want children.
The thing is, when you have a child with someone, like it or not, you're going to have to have a continuing relationship with them.
I mean, being a child was being a child, was being a creature without power, without pocket money, without escape routes of any kind. So I didn't want to be a child.
One grows up thinking you will naturally be able to have children, and when it doesn't happen, it's a shock. But I just feel that it wasn't meant to be.
I've never in my life said I didn't want to have children. I did and I do and I will!
When you discover that you are going to have a child, it stirs up memories of your own childhood.
There's really no point in having children if you're not going to be home enough to father them.
There is no real way to prepare yourself for having a child other than just getting thrown in the deep end pretty quick.
No one understands the shift in priorities about having a child in your life... until you have a child in your life.
You become a parent when you have a baby, no matter how you get there.