I have been a parent since I was 25. That's a large chunk of my adult life. Mother or father, it transforms you completely.
Sentiment: POSITIVE
Being a parent means my time use has to be a bit more focused, but it also gives me a new non-writing dimension to my life, which is a healthy thing. I can't wander along for weeks with an idea drifting through my head - I have someone who will drag me back into life, and that's a good thing.
There's nothing unique about me as a parent. I am a parent. My kids are kids. We do the best we can do.
Becoming a parent gives you access to a whole world of feeling. It gives you a much stronger sense of life and death: becoming a father made me realise my own mortality.
When you become a parent, you look at your parents differently. You look at being a child differently. It's an awakening, a revelation that you have.
I'm not a parent, but it seems to me the nature of parenting is contingent, full of unexpected challenges - which is one of the wonderful and amazing things about it.
Becoming a parent expands you as a human being. I am having the most wonderful time. You've married, but the addition of a child strengthens and deepens everything.
I became the kind of parent my mother was to me.
So, you know, parenting is a very intimate and amazing experience and one of the best experiences of my life.
I still feel like a kid sometimes myself so hard to believe that I'm a mom. Now I'm an adult! It only took 38 years!
For some people, becoming a parent does change them, but it never changed me.