Having a baby is a disaster for your career. I don't think there's any sympathy.
Sentiment: NEGATIVE
Having an infant is difficult. It's a lot of work, and I didn't hire any help because I overestimated my own abilities.
Having a baby is one of the most wonderful things in your life, as well as the hardest thing in your life.
I really thought when I was pregnant with my first that it wouldn't affect my work at all; it would just be a baby that grows up on set. And I was absolutely wrong. For women, the high point of their career and needing to have babies just don't really go together.
Having a baby takes so much from you. It's the most glorious thing you'll ever do, but the aftermath is not so glorious!
I've sort of made up my mind that I have to do my career and I have to be a mother. These are my two responsibilities; of course the baby comes first.
I'm one of the lucky few who never had to face the whole 'Oh, you've had a baby, and now work will have to suffer' bit. It just wasn't a big deal when I got married and had a baby.
It was an odd coincidence that my career took off the same decade as having babies. I often wished it had been different, that I had my big career bump in my thirties and my babies in my forties or vice versa.
I quite liked having a baby - I think I won't put it more strongly than that. But I had no intention of allowing motherhood to disrupt my work as an archeologist.
No babies for me until I'm in my 30s! I'm focused on my career right now. I can't even take care of my dog.
I think I would be very sad if I wasn't able to have a baby.