In ways I don't entirely have the words for, an experience, thought or a lesson isn't real for me until I've written down.
Sentiment: NEGATIVE
Through therapy and a lot of thinking and writing my memoirs, I've been able to use my life as a lesson.
I write with experiences in mind, but I don't write about them, I write out of them.
I can understand that there are those who can think and imagine the world without words, but I think that once you find the words that name your experience, then suddenly that experience becomes grounded, and you can use it and you can try to understand it.
I have learned many things in the 30 years that I have been writing.
I store away my experiences and don't feel really happy until I've found a way to write about them.
I think everything you do in life is a learning experience.
A practical part of my teaching is to provide demonstrative, hands-on experiences.
When I am writing a story it feels as real as the life I am experiencing off the page. It's an emotional illusion, I guess.
I view the experiences that I have had - both tough ones and the pleasant ones - as gifts. They've been full of lessons. And I've learned to be open to those lessons.
I definitely don't write with any kind of 'message' or 'lesson,' probably because when I was a child, I used to run a mile from books like that.