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I was willing to accept what I couldn't change.

Sometimes change is good. Although I didn't want to leave.

I was married to someone who wanted me to change. Become more adult, more responsible. I began not to like myself, not like what I do. I lost my identity. Everything began collapsing around me.

I only change things where I know about a situation. I'd never change just for change.

I wouldn't change a thing about what I've done in the past because what may have been bad choices have all led me to this moment.

I cannot change anything, so I don't want to think about what I would have done.

So I really did stop and change what I saw I was about, and really try to put that principle into play as the center of everything - my friendships, my marriage, my career, my family, my way of being in the world. And that changed everything for me.

I like change. I've never really had much consistency in my life, you know, from everyday work to my living situation to whether or not I'm going to be in L.A. The one constant thing in my life is my friends and family, which is all I need.

In many ways, my decision to come out changed the course not only of my personal life but of my professional one as well.