People don't listen when you lecture. No one wants to be talked down to or scolded.
Sentiment: NEGATIVE
I never lecture, not because I am shy or a bad speaker, but simply because I detest the sort of people who go to lectures and don't want to meet them.
Professors simply can't discuss a thing. Habit compels them to deliver a lecture.
This is unusual for me. I have given readings and not lectures. I have told people who ask for lectures that I have no lecture to give. And that is true.
I kind of treat myself like the audience. I don't like being lectured.
A lecture is an occasion when you numb one end to benefit the other.
If I disagree with someone, I let them have their say and move on. I don't want to be the one to lecture.
Even when I lecture per se, I am a joke comedian, I can do the voices.
Most people have to talk so they won't hear.
I learned that when something just has to be said to move the discussion along, or broaden it or deepen it, if I can just keep my mouth shut for five minutes a student will say it. So for me a lot of teaching is about keeping my mouth shut.
People, by and large, would rather be talking than listening.
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