I can't tell you what that little ingredient is which makes that first person want to go on and aggressively do more, and the other person be content to not do that. It's a mystery, but it does happen.
Sentiment: POSITIVE
It is much easier to suppress a first desire than to satisfy those that follow.
There's something very addictive about people pleasing. It's a thought pattern and a habit that feels really, really good until it becomes desperate.
It's the same thing that drives people to want to experience sexual pleasure or have one too many drinks. We all want to experience the other, and to get out of our daily existence.
What makes resisting temptation difficult for many people is they don't want to discourage it completely.
It's like spicy food - sometimes you have to tone it down so more people can enjoy it.
I'll say this, and this has nothing to do with gender or sexuality: You do not want to get licked in the face repeatedly by another human being. You just don't. It's not pleasant.
Aggression only moves in one direction - it creates more aggression.
Running a start-up is like eating glass. You just start to like the taste of your own blood.
It is not the least anxiety that we have so little powder and lead on hand.
I understand aggressiveness in only one way: being prepared to hurt yourself, not someone else.