I got off on the fact that a guy would be so into me from the get-go without really knowing me. That's probably why I had so many bad relationships.
Sentiment: NEGATIVE
While I very much wanted to be in a relationship, I didn't want to be in the wrong one.
I'd been around women who put me down, made me feel bad, or said things to fuel my insecurity.
All my other relationships with men, there was so much maneuvering and strategic decisions and stuff.
If I fell into one relationship after another with men who were either emotionally tuned out and unavailable or hotheaded and controlling, or both, it was because I was lacking in good sense about men.
There was at time in my life where all I wanted was a relationship, and I thought that was the most important thing.
I found out that I'd broken up with someone when I wasn't even aware I was going out with them!
In my early twenties, I had no idea who I was. And I think that's one reason you should try different relationships. I've had good and bad ones, but I took away things from them that helped me become who I am.
Everyone messes up in relationships and has peaks and valleys in their personal lives. When I realized it wasn't the end of the world and I would keep on standing, I knew it was going to be OK.
I think the worst part about a breakup sometimes, if one could choose a worst part, would possibly be if you get out of a relationship, and you don't recognize yourself because you changed a lot about you.
Because I'm a good girl, I tend to fall for the bad boy persona, and it ends up biting me in the butt. They end up not knowing how to treat me, and I end up completely devastated.
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