As a parent, you must give your opinion. And if that causes a breach, then it causes a breach.
Sentiment: NEGATIVE
Every breach you look at occurred because somebody inside did something they weren't supposed to do. Sometimes there's an accomplice, but most of the time, it's innocent.
It's quite difficult for a parent to know that their daughter is in great danger.
Somewhere it is written that parents who are critical of other people's children and publicly admit they can do better are asking for it.
You're working on being a father, so that is something that when you experience it you'll understand the profundity of wanting to protect something dear to you.
It seems to me if you don't know anything about child development you shouldn't intimate in your 'reporting' that you do.
We busted a lot of family secrets with this. But to make a long story short, my parents relationship was built heavily on security issues for my Mom, and when my Dad couldn't provide security, the relationship unraveled.
There's a level of protection you need to give to your kids, and then sometimes you need to just let them figure out things on their own.
With parents, that's the only way sometimes that they can get across to their kids is by giving them an ultimatum.
As a rule, I try to steer clear of opinions pertaining to your parenting. I assume you're doing the best you can, and God bless.
It is the uninvolved parent who has to resort to strictness.